You are unable to change yourself or get rid of bad habits, no matter how hard you try? You are starting out well on a new goal of personal development, but suddenly back turning around and spill on your old bad habits in the process? Mode of self-destruction; They sabotage their chance to put your life in order.
What is the main problem?
A lot of people fall prey to self sabotage. They refuse to make positive changes and developments in their lives. And the reason is that they have unresolved conflicts within them. No matter how hard I try to consciously change or a clean break in life, these internal conflicts, which are embedded deep inside you, you still come out and create negative thoughts in your head, and almost always this will lead to results and adverse effects.
So before you put down all resolutions to try and change your life, you must resolve internal conflicts.
These internal conflicts as well as affect our lives? For example, consider a person who wants to quit smoking. Consciously, know that smoking is bad for them, and have read about all the methods you can use to get rid of their smoking habit. But still, they don't follow anti-smoking counselling or neglect lead their nicotine gum or nicotine patches to them. This is why they subconsciously doesn't want to stop smoking, or because their minds are still set on how smoking makes them feel or why they have developed an addiction to smoking as a way of dealing with stress. So, before the person can get rid of smoking, needs to find a different way to achieve the feeling like he gets when he smoke, or a different way to deal with stressful situations in life.
How to recognize the inner conflict
There are any changes that you want to make in yourself and in your life? If Yes, then you must first recognize any internal conflicts that can get in your way of change. To understand the things that are holding you back from your personal transformation goals, try to see you make the change you wish to. What do you feel when you imagine yourself as a person changed? Do you feel any fear or sadness at losing something when you change? If so, then that is what took place. Be attentive and patient with you, because the internal conflicts reside in the subconscious mind.
How to overcome internal conflicts
Internal conflicts are impossible to solve. You must go to where they have set their roots, that is your subconscious mind. The best way to change the status of your subconscious mind is to fill it with subliminal messages about yourself without positive internal conflicts.
Once you recognize the conflict that is holding you back and get rid of them, it will be easier to change their attitude and personality and begin to think and act in a more positive light.